I enjoyed reading the following on your guestbook:
“I have always envied girls their slick, tight one piece suits, and now wear mine all the time at the beach and the local swimming pool.
Nobody ever makes any comments”.
“thank god i’m not the only male to want to wear a 1-piece !”
Here are my answers.
> Have you ever wanted or wondered what it is like to wear a one- > piece swimsuit at the beach or at swimming pool.
Not until strange ideas began to haunt my mind. I am 27, a little androgynous, so I can choose to wear almost all female wear (that respect my body anyway).
I was disappointed to see that clothing catalogs have much more pages for women.
I felt fascinated reading the fitness feminine wear pages, not only by the beautiful models but also by what they wear.
After hesitating, I ordered (by postal order) one Adidas Evolution Hot Short.
I had to find the good size by comparing men and women size charts.
Since I have been satisfied, I also ordered (online) the corresponding Evolution Crop Tank Top.
I never felt like wearing female bras, but crop tank tops can fit on my bust.
When it was delivered, I was very excited like never before.
My image in the mirror was the same, with more fun. I did not turn into a girl !
I think if Lycra is sensual, it’s because of some dielectric properties.
I will study this scientifically, and gender-related wear fashions too, with the material available at www.orgonomy.org (I believe in W. Reich’s fantastic discoveries, not yet approved by the official scientists).
This summer, I went out alone for some roller-skating, in hot, desert streets of Paris’ suburb with this short and top (hidden by a Speedo T-shirt).
I went on with crop tank tops, choosing other ones as tight underwear. It helps me to develop my ribs’ muscles like weights.
My prefered shape is the racer-back crop.
I went out for jogging in a public park, and pulled out my T-shirt for a while, going on running in a quiet area with many trees, but some people could see me.
The air was fresh, my back was sweating, my belly was cooled, and my breasts were protected… I felt so good !
This is the end of the intro, here comes the exciting part.
But it is the reason why I could think about wearing female suits and keep feeling a good boy.
> Are you thinking or do you go public in a one-piece suit,Has this site > helped you in any way to make that leap forward.
Three weeks ago, I had a dream: I should wear a one-piece swimsuit. So I ordered online two suits.
I went swimming to a remote pool to be sure that nobody would recognize me, and put my first 1-piece swimsuit underwater, over my former male suit.
I enjoyed swimming better than ever and went out of the pool with it. Nobody had a second look because I felt comfortable even with this nice feminine one.
It is a summer one, not a swimming-pool chlorine-resistant one so I need to use other ones.
This week, since my other swimsuit was not delivered (it was out of stock and I will have it next week), I went to a shop and dared to purchase another one, carrying it through the shop.
It was a good self-esteem training.
I got a “Speedo Epic Leg Suit” that fits me very well.
I went to the local pool at its last opening hour, when many students go swimming.
Several of them know me, we are not friends but we sometimes have some short discussions together. I just said hello to one of them that looked me twice strangely, but I think it was because I did not feel and look cool.
After swimming, going out of the shower room, I noticed that some boys were suprised but girls did not notice me.
Now I am waiting for my third swimsuit, I think it will be enough (it’s more expensive than shorts !). I will go to remote pools when I can, or invent an odd and funny way to appear with some of my swimsuit at the local pool !
I discovered the site after taking the first steps so it helps me to go on and think I am not an alien.
> Does it feel more natural and normal wearing a one-piece.
Yes, because I don’t like to show almost all of all my thin body.
I still feel male but with a better skin.
About my breasts, my right nipple is larger than the left. Not as big as a 12-13 years old girl’s, but it sometimes points out.
Tens of years ago, when my grandparents were young, did not some male competitive swimmers wear such suits ?
If I swim near the border of the pool, it can protect my skin (beeing dissolved by chlorine) from some sharp edges of the old used liner.
I did not go to the beach yet, but it can help to protect against shells or aggressive sand.
> Would you like to see more men wearing one-piece suits.
Yes, because it looks more unisex and female-aimed suits are more beautiful.
Since they hide much of the skin, they do not focus on sexual organs even if those have well-visible tridimensional shapes.
They enhance the body instead of hiding only parts that are better to be hidden (they are sensitive and fragile areas !).
> Are you finding it hard or easy to buy a suit.
Buying in a shop: when choosing in the women’s area, I did not feel at ease first, but went absorbed by my choice and forgot to watch if there were not odd people looking me.
The shop’s staff did not care.
Buying online: one have total freedom, but I felt the risk of ordering too many clothes that I don’t really need.
Be careful about compulsive purchase !
Concerning sizes: If nature had blessed me with strong bones, muscles, hairy breasts… I’d just to act as a male sex-symbol, but I’m rather a tiny-width one (but 1m80 tall).
So I can choose in all the female areas.
Measure your hips, bust, torso, waist, and choose your size on the female charts.
Don’t forget that a male has (normally) no breasts, so his bust and underbust sizes are equal.
One can choose the size just under the one that matches the bigger dimension (I wear #42 T-shirts but a #40 dress fits very well).
Swimsuits are extensible enough.
Just be careful for your sexual organs, lucky females have them inside, but males have very fragile testicles which can be badly damaged (risk of cancer) if they are too hot and in very tight clothes.
> Why do you or want to wear a one-piece in public.
First for my comfort and second to break the rules, men diserve colorful and funny clothes like women in order to develop their inner life and sensitivity.
Men with feminine qualities stay men as long as their mind is primary active, creative, logical…
and women with these male qualities stay women as long as their keep sensitive, open to the world,
able to surrender, passive (beeing passive is a good feminine attitude to better understand everything than trying to describe the reality with structured patterns,
which a male behavior). But I am afraid that this will evolve slowly.
My last online purchase is a 85cm blue dress (92% cotton, 8% lycra) that I will wear often at home.
I think a dress it better for the body than pants because the lower belly and legs are free.
Guess what underwear will I have sometimes ?
A one-piece swimsuit or lycra short and crop top of course !
When I will have a girlfriend at home, I am sure we sill have much fun together.
I am less armored and want the women’s fahsion and fun for myself too.
> What do other people think of you wearing a one-piece.
I have not asked my girlfriends yet.
I just met them last summer and since they don’t live near my town, I won’t see them until later.
Our relationships were intimate enough to discuss about this when we will meet again.
—————————————————————————- Now I’m going to the local pool and will slip my one-piece swimsuit underwater before swimming with fins (then I will be able to say “it’s for safety because I don’t want to scratch my hip again”)
Happy swimming !
